What are the success
secrets used by the top motivational experts? It turns out that they are in
fundamental agreement. Below are eight, solid principles that they all, without
exception, teach.
Self help author, Michael
Jeffreys, interviewed fifteen motivational gurus back in 1997, including Brian
Tracy, Les Brown, Wayne Dyer, Mike Ferry, Patricia Fripp, Jack Canfield and
Mark Victor Hansen. He took notes and distilled the following eight secrets
which he then published in his book, Secrets of the Motivational Superstars.
Each of the gurus were
convinced that the following eight tips constitute what you need to do in order
to be really successful:
Let’s take a quick look at
each of them.
1. Take
100% Responsibility for Your Life
If you are striving for
success right now, that essentially means you have not yet achieved the level
of success you desire. So who’s fault is that? If your answer is that it is
your own fault, then you are truly on the right path. Successful people never blame
others when things go wrong, instead, they take full responsibility for their
success and their failures too. If you think it is someone else’s fault that
you have not achieved success, it’s not the end of the world, you just need to
work on your attitude a bit.
2. Live
Your Life On Purpose
Do you believe that life
holds a purpose for you? Again, if you can answer, ‘yes’ you are on the right
path. Successful people believe that they are here to make a difference and
that’s how they go about living their lives, as if what they are doing matters.
If you answer ‘no’ to this question, perhaps you might like to open your mind
to the possibility that life might hold a specific purpose for you.
3. Be
Willing to Pay the Price
Someone once commented that
they would do anything to be able to make a golf shot like a professional. The
professional replied that they were mistaken, because if they were genuinely
prepared to do anything, then they would be able to make that shot. So are you
willing to do whatever it takes? Of course, this is another question where your
answer must be ‘yes’, but going a step further, have you identified what that
is and are you actually doing it right now?
4. Stay
Focused
You must resist all
temptations to be drawn off course. Once you know what your target is, you must
give it your all. If you are serious about achieving success, you need to
dedicate yourself to getting there and that means doing things the other people
around you are just not prepared to do. Sure they all want success too, but if
you are engaged in doing what they are not, then again it is healthy a sign
that you are indeed on the right road.
5. Become
an Expert in Your Field
Read, learn, educate and
develop yourself so that you manage to achieve complete mastery within your
chosen field. Whatever you have decided to do with your life, one obstacle that
may be preventing you from joining the top performers is your lack of
professional competence or your incomplete knowledge about the discipline, and
achieving the necessary level of competence is directly related to your own
desire and willingness to transform yourself.
6. Write
out a Plan for Achieving Your Goals
Your goals won’t
materialise without effort on your part, no matter what anyone tells you about
the law of attraction, cosmic ordering or the power of thought. You need a plan
and the sooner you get it written down the better.
7. Never
Give Up
There will be many times
along the way that you will doubt yourself, your plan, your goals and your
commitment especially when success does not come as easily as you first
thought, despite putting in what you thought was all the effort that would be
needed. That is the moment that separates the winners from the rest of the
field because the others simply give up. But, if you want success, you will
simply redouble your efforts, you will find ways of working more efficiently
and you will ultimately break through provided that you don’t give up.
8. Don’t
Delay
Now is the time, not
tomorrow, not when you think the economic climate is better, not when you have
more time, not when the kids are grown up, not when you retire, not when you
give yourself permission; none of those times, but now. So, get cracking!
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